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ok I love him
am sure I want him to be the one walkinf to the aisle with me and the one to spend my whole life with. But he's just like different, I mean we are engaged aren't we suppossed to have stronger feelings than we had when just in a relationship we are engaged after 7 years of a relationship and he asked me to marry him on april 30th, 2008 we are getting married September 18th 2010. I am not sure if I'm stressed because of the date it feels like am engaged forever!!! but we are fighting a lot am not sure if just nervous we won't see each other very often because of our jobs and when I talk to him to to see when are we seeing each other again he says let's say tomorrow I can't cuz I work all day, thursday I get off really late, so maybe friday and friday gets here and it's either am home waiting or I have to work. I feel it so selfish and sad that we cannot be together and plan things I don't feel so excited since I have plenty of time is any of you stressed? is this normal??

Posted On: Nov 25, 2009 at 2:17 AM

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franzia7

Wedding: 09/18/2010

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91810bride

Wedding: 09/18/2010

Posted On: Nov 25, 2009 at 2:26 AM \| Flag As Inappropriate
Well funny thing our wedding is the same YAY!!! But i think that it is normal! My and my FH see eachother in the am when is going to work and when I am getting home! it sucks! But on my days off it is fun to actually sii him! I start missing him during my work week! I think that i am with on feeling like the wedding is so far away! i am to that point that i just want it to be done and over with so that it is a stress taken off my back!!! I feel like i have a touch of bridezillaness!! LOL I am super stressed!! Trying to lose weight, making sure that everyone is happy, trying to get all the girls on the same page for dresses! Who knew that being in love caused so much stress!?!?! It is like you get a ring on your finger means LET THE STRESS BEGIN!!! But in the end i am so happy to be spending the rest of my like with him!!!

Sachele D.

Married: 09/18/2009
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Posted On: Nov 25, 2009 at 3:48 AM \| Flag As Inappropriate
Great date ladies! being engaged can be scary even if you are meant to be. The biggest question you have to ask yourself is if you can take the way things are now for the rest of your life. If seeing him once every so often will make your life better. I never had time to get stressed we had a 3 month engagement but I know a lot of people do. Take a deep breath and talk it out. Explain to him that you need to see him more so you need to compare schedules and see when you can work in some together time.

franzia7

Wedding: 09/18/2010

Posted On: Nov 26, 2009 at 2:17 AM \| Flag As Inappropriate
Thank u guys.. u were really helpful and the same date WOW!!! it's a small world we have plenty of time thank you for taking your time girls to give me thoughtful words God bless you

aimeedarling

Wedding: 09/25/2010

Posted On: Nov 26, 2009 at 7:34 AM \| Flag As Inappropriate
You know what Franzia, I kept saying the same thing!My FH and I w ere together for almost 7yrs when he proposed &we never argued before that! We were very proud of ourselves for that too! It's almost like now that we're preparing to commit to one another for the long haul, we're expecting more from one another. We've lived together for abt 3 yrs. we actually see each other A LOT..and I feel blessed that i see his smiling face as often as I do.. but sometimes I could use some space.. lol anyway, my assumption with my FH and I is that.. now that we're going to be married, we DO expect more from one another.. i expect him to be more attentive, to listen a little harder when i talk, to kiss me more passionately because aren't we working towards the same goal?? to live HAPPILY EVER AFTER?! for a guy, i think the wedding details are too much for them, & usually they just agree & move on.. trouble w/ us women is, we care too much! Just take it 1 day at a time & remember to love eachother!

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